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If you’re a Tesla owner, beware of Tesstudio

Buyer beware. That's always good advice. It's especially good advice if you're thinking about buying something from Tesstudio, which sells Tesla accessories and has horrible customer service. My tale of Tesstudio woe hasn't reached a conclusion yet. But I've learned enough about the company to make me want to get this blog post warning out into cyberspace as soon as possible. As a new Model Y Juniper owner, I was concerned that the large glass roof would heat up my car too much in the summer. Actually, I've learned that this isn't a major concern here in western Oregon, as…
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Oregon beat Oregon State in baseball regional, but both are winners to me

I thought it was screwy when the pairings for this year's NCAA baseball playoffs were announced, and the Eugene regional had Oregon, Oregon State, Washington State, and Yale. Huh? How could it be that the surviving original members of the PAC-12 conference, Oregon State and Washington State, were in the same regional double elimination tournament hosted by Oregon, along with Yale? But baseball works in mysterious ways, so I tried to look on the bright side -- even though I had been hoping that both Oregon and Oregon State would advance past the regional stage. Pleasingly, Oregon and Oregon State…
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Meet my end-of-life crisis car: a 2026 Tesla Model Y Premium

I'm too old to have a mid-life crisis. So I'm calling my just-leased Tesla Model Y my end-of-life crisis car. While it isn't a red convertible with a beautiful blonde sitting in the passenger seat, I can check two of those three boxes: the Tesla is red and my beautiful wife of 36 years , Laurel, is blonde. (Note: 36 years is how long we've been married, not her age.) Here I am with the car in our driveway. We picked up the 2026 Model Y Premium from the Salem dealership two days ago, May 27. The car arrived more…
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Goodbye BMW iX3. Hello Tesla Model Y. I’ve decided who I love the most.

A test drive made a heck of a lot of difference. On May 6 I wrote "I’m one step closer to having a 2027 BMW iX3. Sadly, it’s a small step." That was when I put down $1,000 on a reservation deposit for BMW's new electric vehicle with 434 miles of range and fast charging. I wasn't wild about the styling or color choices, but was fine with silver. After paying the $1,000, I figured it made sense to check out the main competition to the iX3 in my mind, Tesla's Model Y. I'd never even sat in one, much…
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Loving Tesla doesn’t mean I love Elon Musk. Loving Washington Post doesn’t mean I love Jeff Bezos.

I usually don't read comments on Facebook posts where I've shared a link to one of my blog posts. It isn't that I don't care what people think about what I've written. It's more that after I write something, I feel good that I've expressed how I feel about some subject, and now others are free to express how they feel about what I felt. Today I made an exception. My wife was driving us back to Salem from Eugene, where we'd visited our granddaughter, Evelyn, who is finishing her first year at the University of Oregon. Entertaining myself with…
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Driving a Tesla around Salem with Full Self-Driving, I was super impressed

Amazingly, I had never ridden in a Tesla until today, after I'd made an appointment to try out Full Self-Driving (Supervised), which for me is the main reason I'd choose a Tesla over other electric cars. So not only was I able to ride in a Tesla, after Rylan, the general manager (hopefully I recall his name correctly), took me for a demonstration ride with him in the driver's seat, when we returned to the dealership on Mission Street I was given the opportunity to take out the Model Y on my own. I came away really impressed with FSD.…
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Posted inGrowing older Home life

When it comes to friends, quality is more important than quantity

It's been a while since I've heard the proverb, two's company, three's a crowd.  But it fits with an important conclusion in a story I came across in the May 11, 2026 issue of TIME magazine, "The Myth of the Adult Friend Group." Here's a PDF version of the story in case that link doesn't work for you. The Myth of the Adult Friend Group The author, Meehika Barua, speaks of chasing the fantasy of TV shows like Friends and Sex and the City where a tight-knit group of close friends hang out daily, sharing the ups and downs of…
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I’m one step closer to having a 2027 BMW iX3. Sadly, it’s a small step.

In late March of this year I wrote, "With Tesla easing out of the car-making business, the BMW iX3 looks appealing." Excerpt: For my next car, I’d like to either get a plug-in hybrid or an all-electric vehicle. Rumor has it that the 2027 Hyundai Tucson PHEV will have 62 miles of electric range, up from 33 miles in the current model. That would beat the RAV 4 PHEV. So I’m keeping my eyes open for news about the 2027 Tucson, which will feature a major redesign. As long as I’m car window-shopping, the recently released (in Europe) BMW iX3…
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Our rural south Salem property is looking good in its Spring greenness

We don't get a lot of visitors to our home in rural south Salem, Oregon. I like to share photos on my blog, so all the work we put into our property -- either hired, which we're doing more of as we age, or directly by my wife and I -- gets more views than it otherwise would. This is my favorite view of our yard. Our house is barely visible on the far left. Trees abound. The large old oak in the center of the photo, at the end of the lawn, lost a huge limb in the Great…
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Posted inHealth Philosophy

Treat life like a science experiment: embrace trial and error

Many years ago, a female massage therapist said, while we were chatting during the session, "I make more mistakes than my sister because I try more new things." I've never forgotten that line. It often comes to mind when I make a mistake, which is frequently. Mistakes bother me, especially when I should know better and simply screw up because of a lack of concentration, my mind having drifted off to another time and place instead of focusing on the task at hand. Yet if I make a mistake while trying something new, I do my best to look kindly…
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Posted inGrowing older Retirement community

We need more ways for seniors to live in their community, not in an institution

My wife and I aren't super old. We're just old. Of course, our age limit for "super old" keeps increasing as our birthdays add up. I've had 77 so far. Laurel is a bit younger. What hasn't changed over the years is our reluctance to move from the non-easy-care house on ten rural acres that we've lived in since 1990. I've tried to explain the reasons for this in various blog posts. Here's a sampling: I'm 65. Where's my "Aging Hippie" retirement community? Musings on the problem of where to live after retiring Why it makes sense for seniors to…
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Artemis II return to Earth was inspiring. Iran war negotiations not so much.

Today was a yin and yang news day for me. I was deeply moved watching the Artemis II crew splash down in the Pacific after becoming the humans who have traveled furthest from Earth in the course of their journey around the dark side of the moon. I continued to be disgusted and disturbed by the state of the supposed cease fire in the Iran war, which is mired in confusion, mixed messages, and general incoherence. So I saw the best of what science and technology can achieve in the United States' inspiring return to the moon -- or at…
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Claude is my new best friend. Google should be jealous.

It wasn't that long ago when "Googling" became synonymous with searching for something on the internet. Sure, there were other search engines, but Google was so dominant, few people used them. These days a search engine is coming to sound archaic, like a VHS recorder or a floppy disk. There are a couple of reasons for this, both of which should worry Google, especially the second one. First, I rarely look at the usual search results after I type in something in the Google search bar. The AI Overview that typically pops up at the top of the search results…
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With Tesla easing out of the car-making business, the BMW ix3 electric SUV looks appealing

My wife and I were early electric car buyers. Too early. Because we only kept the 2011 Nissan Leaf we bought for about eight months. Even though it just had a range of about 100 miles, there were other reasons why we sold it and bought a Chevy Volt plug-in hybrid. Now I'm driving a gas-powered Subaru Crosstrek, while my wife has a Toyota RAV 4 plug-in hybrid. It has enough electric range that she has to worry about its gasoline going bad if the car hasn't been driven out of town for a while. For my next car, I'd…
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I’m irritated with this Salem doctor, and pleased with this Eugene doctor

There's a lot I could say about the prostate surgery (TURP) I had two months ago at the PeaceHealth Riverbend hospital in Springfield. But in this blog post I'm going to try to follow my adage, "The only people who want to hear about an old man's prostate surgery are other old men, or the man's closest family and friends." So my goal here is to mainly talk about a bigger issue, one that almost everyone who interacts with doctors faces at some point: how is it that some M.D.s are so uncaring toward patients, while other M.D.s are so…
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Posted inHome life

Yay! We qualify for solar panels, even though our house is surrounded by tall trees

Today I got some good news. After seeing an ad in the Oregonian by Energy Trust of Oregon, I took them up on an offer to have reputable solar companies contact me, rather than taking a chance on the many posts I see on Facebook by firms making grandiose claims about how much a homeowner can save by installing their solar panels. Soon after I filled out an Energy Trust form with my address and contact information, I heard from someone who grew up in our rural south Salem neighborhood, and still lives nearby. Miles Henderson works in sales with…
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I just learned about placeholder relationships. Sure didn’t apply to me and my wife.

Thanks to an article in TIME magazine by Meehika Barua, "The Rise of the Placeholder Partner," recently I learned about placeholder relationships. Barua explains what this means in her opening paragraphs. A friend of mine got out of a six year relationship, only to have her ex marry someone new within six months. Another woman I met at a networking event recently has been with her boyfriend for a decade, waiting on a ring. Every time they go on a vacation, she wonders if this holiday will be the one where he will propose, only to be dejected on the…
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Posted inInvesting

I was surprised how good I felt selling a crude oil fund and buying a sustainability fund

Gasoline prices have been on peoples' minds lately, given how the war with Iran that Trump started for some dubious reasons has caused the price of Brent Crude Oil to shoot up markedly, as shown in this 10 year chart provided by the Trading Economics site. Our neighborhood gas station here in Salem, Oregon is charging $4.25 a gallon, last time I looked. While I'm an environmentalist, a number of years ago our financial advisor thought that my wife and I needed a commodities fund in our investment portfolio, which otherwise largely consists of index mutual funds and a balanced…
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Making daylight saving time permanent would save lives — of people and deer

I've found that whether changing our clocks twice a year is a good thing or bad thing, and whether it would be best to make daylight saving time or standard time permanent, are subjects that arouse more extreme opinionating in a group than religion or politics. Almost everyone has a firmly held view on this. Mine is that daylight saving time should be made permanent, as I've argued in these previous blog posts: Making daylight saving time permanent is a must, Congress Daylight saving time should be permanent -- no more "fall back" time change Let's make daylight saving time…
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If your iPassword extension for Safari disappeared, this worked for me to get it back

Recently the 1Password extension for Safari disappeared on my MacBook Pro. The extension wasn't showing in Safari settings, so most of the tips for getting it back that I found via some Googling didn't apply. Nothing else worked either. I was down to the tip of uninstalling 1Password on my computer, then installing it again. I was reluctant to do that, because I didn't want to risk screwing up my much-beloved 1Password, which I use a lot and had been workin fine until the extension disappeared. So I asked 1Password support for help. Soon I got an email from a…
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